Wife filed for divorce

Last week my wife filed for divorce. I,ve made my point that i,d like to work things out. She seems to have a laundry list of things i need to change for that to happen. From my point of view its worth every efford to save our marriage, but she first of all doesn,t think i can do it and second doesn,t think its fair to ask me to. Were kind of at the point where she has filed and being stubborn it will be very hard to change her mind. At the moment were talking alot better than we have in years. I,ll admit i,m the person who put her in this position and i,m planning on doing whatever it takes because i love her that much. Are problems started with my job which i lost because the company closed its doors which caused us a major financial problem. So it took our credit cards to make ends meet. Which got out of control and made things worse. Now were strapped and are trying to sell our house so i,m going to file personal bankrupsy all by myself. Even though she filed for divorce and i knoe the debt can be split. I don,t want to hurt her and i,m going to take the fall so she will be o.K. How do i save this marriage and is what i want to do crazy/