Not divorced yet in MN & wife has boyfriend living in the house.

So I agreed to leave the house since the first mort is in the wife's name and find my own place(we have been living apart for the last 12 months) 2nd mort is in both names. We have kids, 8,6,3 and she had her boyfriend move in 4 days after moving back in! I found out this was going to happen on a Thursday, the kids met this 11 year younger BF on Friday and he was moved on on Wednesday! Nothing I can really do about it but I am wondering what the court will think about this. I'm PO'd. She says he is paying $500.00 per month (which includes use of her car I guess) cause she wont be able to afford it on her own, I lived there the last year and was able to scrape by on my own and she currently makes more than I do! I have stopped paying all bills that have to do with that house since I can't see paying for anyting that this boy is using. i.e. balances in the almost ex's name for carpet, appliances, deck, ect. She totally expects me to pony up for these items which is being written up in her version of the papers. I filed and she got my papers on her B-Day last year because of a diff guy who was actually 16 years younger! (I met this one).

Anyway, I had to close my business and am tossing around the idea of filing bankruptcy sooner then later because this woman ruined me. I am over all the pain she caused me, I just don't think she should be able to have her cake and eat it to. Sorry for any type-o's did this fast from work. Thanks for the